What I Learned in 2016

Holy $#@*, I can’t believe 2016 is almost over. Where has the time gone?

I feel like it was just yesterday I was ringing in 2016, but after the growth that happened this year, I am even more excited to say hello to 2017. As I’ve briefly discussed here on the blog, it was just a couple years ago when I struggled a lot personally, and even though it is something I am still overcoming and working very hard on, I give myself credit each day knowing that I am gradually improving and loving myself more!

I am not about to discuss my resolutions for 2017 because frankly, there is just too much pressure that comes with resolutions, so I’ve decided to set goals instead and stick to positive thoughts, but before even doing that, I have to shed light on the things that I learned this year specifically.

1. Taking a break (or vacation) is just as important as hustling. I’ve learned that we can all use a break to not only recharge but to treat and thank ourselves for working hard and hustling. I took a few mini trips this year and it really opened my eyes and allowed me to work even harder when I got back to work!
2. Know my worth. I’ve been blogging for years now, and only now am I able to feel confident about my worth and what my work represents. I’ve also learned that worth isn’t just based on work, but with friends and people in my life. I know my worth and what I offer my friends and loved ones. If it is not reciprocated, then I have no choice but to think about whether this person is in my life for the right reasons.
3. Learned to not say “I’m busy” all the time. We all do it, its true, but I just hate the term “I’m busy”. I’m trying really hard to better explain to others what I am going through or what is taking up my time, so I don’t have to say that I’m busy. With this, it also leans into my next point.
4. Make time for laughter. No matter how busy I am, I need that time to kick back and laugh again. We can all get so caught up with life and pressures, but taking the time to laugh and be silly is the only way that your heart and soul will feel fulfilled. It’s true – have a giggle!
5. Don’t bottle things. It’s easy to be insecure about whether you are making a big deal about something or not, but bottling it DOES NOT HELP! I’ve found it helpful to just be open and honest with my feelings in a respectful and calm way. That way, those around you are in tune with your feelings and emotions without feeling like you’re breaking down to them all the time.
6. There is more to being healthy than just looking at it as “weight loss”. I have to admit, this is a tricky one for me, but after spending years being sad and depressed, I take health as much more than just eating the right foods and working out. I hope to share more on the blog about personal growth and self love, but being happy is my main focus, so when I am working towards being truly “happy”, all the food, working out, getting active stuff falls into place.
7. LOVE MYSELF. I have to admit that I am still human. I still have days when I feel negative about myself, but this year has really taught me about myself and what I am capable of. I am strong, I am beautiful and I am a good person, and frankly, I love myself for that. I dedicate each day to showing myself what I have to offer and if people don’t like it, well, ain’t nobody got time for that!

Happy New Year guys. I wouldn’t be doing this if it weren’t for the readers and followers who never make me feel alone and give me strength to carry on and improve!

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